Share a meal. Try more dishes.
Not a date.
ToShareAMeal helps solo travelers and locals share meals in public restaurants across NYC — with clear expectations and low social pressure.
Group-first by default (3–4 people). AA split by default. Leave anytime, no explanation needed.
Travel. Taste. Connect.
Authentic meals and meetups hosted in public places.
What this is (plain English)
You’re joining a meal, not a person. Conversation is optional. No social performance required.
Meet at a real restaurant in NYC. No private locations. No “events.”
No profiles, no photos, no DMs. This is about sharing dishes — nothing else.
Why membership exists
ToShareAMeal isn’t free — by design. Free platforms optimize for volume. This one optimizes for calm, safety, and mutual respect.
- Reduces no-shows and payment issues
- Discourages boundary-pushing behavior
- Supports quiet safety enforcement using private feedback patterns
Membership isn’t about exclusivity. It’s about shared responsibility.
Meet our Top Hosts in NYC
Our hosts make ToShareAMeal feel safe, warm, and real. They organize calm, respectful shared meals in public restaurants — focused on food, conversation, and meaningful encounters.
We publish a monthly snapshot of host activity based on meals hosted and unique attendees. This is not a popularity contest — it’s about reliability, care, and community spirit.
FAQ
Is this a dating app?
No. There are no public profiles, photos, or private messaging. You join a specific meal at a public restaurant to share dishes.
Can I leave early?
Yes. You can leave anytime, no explanation required. Leaving early does not count against you.
Do you publicly rate people?
No. Restaurant experiences may be rated publicly. Feedback about people is private and used only for safety enforcement.