About

ToShareAMeal is built for people who want to share dishes in New York City—without dating-app pressure, without social performance, and without public reputation games.

What we optimize for

Calm: food-first, conversation optional
Safety: public restaurants only, leave-anytime design
Clarity: AA split by default, simple rules, no private messaging

We start in NYC to build density and trust before expanding.

What this is not

Not a dating service
No public profiles, photos, or DMs
No public ratings of people

Restaurant experiences may be rated publicly. Feedback about people stays private.

Who it’s for

Solo travelers who want to try more dishes in NYC
Locals who enjoy shared meals but dislike loud social apps
People who prefer clear boundaries and a low-pressure experience